Project Background

In 2019 Sharen Black originated the Cotillion For Success program in Las Vegas, Nevada. The objective of the program was to create a ‘Pay It Forward’ youth development and socialization program that brings civility, patriotism, and knowledge of the Constitution into our schools.

The Problem Addressed By The Cotillion For Success Project

Children are often unsure of themselves and lack the confidence to appropriately and respectfully socialize. Many students lack the family unit or role models to encourage even the basics of citizenship in the United States of America. Our adolescents, workforce, and community as a whole, suffer from this lack of stability, encouragement, and youth development. Tragically, student suicide is often the result of isolation. Isolation is often the result of fear of socialization and lack of self-esteem. Because students become more courageous when they are in a setting that teaches self-respect, confidence in knowing appropriate behaviors, and the importance of respecting others: manners, etiquette, and dancing are among the most effective solutions to combating fear and loneliness. The famous quote by Frederick Douglass, “It is easier to build strong children than to repair broken men,” speaks to this challenge.

Cotillion For Success consists of 10 teaching modules, which can be shown to students during the course of the school year. Each teaching lesson reinforces practical use of manners, civility and civic responsibility to encourage confidence and leadership. The on-screen personalities in the films feature four 10-year old students illustrating examples of kindness and good manners as well as etiquette and basic ballroom dancing steps. Knowing appropriate and respectful behaviors helps our future leaders become more productive members of society and our communities.

Your tax-deductible contribution helps us reach and maintain these Youth Development programs throughout the United States.